Asian guys sleeping with white girls why dating trouble
I swiped as James for 3 days and as Lauren for only 1 day.
The short lifespan of Lauren’s account is partly because after a day I’ve got enough materials and partly because I got bored.
Some Viet girls indeed post this on their profiles: Yet, James still got 13 first messages!
They aren’t bots (I checked), because we aren’t that sophisticated in Vietnam yet.
Some of them even said they preferred white girls for two reasons: So white girls, if you like a Viet guy, go for it. Because all these guys/girls thought they were talking to a white person, they were pretty honest about what they thought of Viet girls/guys, and the opinions are not entirely positive.
Idk, let me go grab some cà phê sữa đá and think more about it.
This idea of playing it safe is something that’s taught to Asian men at a young age.
The common answers of white guys are: One answer particularly stood out for me is that this guy thinks Viet girls are all about money. In Vietnam, it’s the norm that when a guy dates a girl, he’s expected to pay for everything for the girl: eating, shopping, even gifts for her family.
Someone did an experiment in Australia on Plenty Of Fish and over 48 hours, the male profile received 2 messages from women while the female profile received 123 messages from men. It’s natural to expect the situation to be worse in a Confucian, patriarchal, male-dominant society like Vietnam, right?
Growing up in Vietnam, I know that none of my Viet girl friends ever approaches men.
Idk about you but I find small talk on Tinder excruciating.
Like, I know you want to get in my pants but I’ll play coy so you can pretend that you care and we can both waste time.