Pua online dating first message sample dating sites in limpopo
Hey Guys, This simple message has really worked for me, pretty much every girl I message with this template always responds, so I thougt I'd share. I don't advocate messaging a girl first because it puts her as the prize and you the chaser, same as how I totally disagree with opening sets in the conventional way because again, you're making them the prize.I beleive you have to flip it so that YOU act like you are the hot blonde and girls have to qualify themselves to you, instead of most of the pua theory out there of "I have to say this and this and this to maker her like me." You cannot win that way.So every time you tell a complete stranger that she’s drop dead gorgeous or that her body is a 10, it just glides over her like a song she’s heard a thousand times.And by not commenting on her physical beauty straight off the bat you let her know that you’re not intimidated by her looks.
Agreed on the need to action - if I'd left it down to women who contacted me first I would have only had 2 or 3 'dates' in 6 months rather than about 40 dates and a couple of f-closes.
This might sound a bit hypocritical because at the end of the day Tinder is largely (if not entirely) based on a person’s looks.
But this is just how the game works, so do yourself a favor and play it right.
So seriously do yourself a favor and stay away from anything that you wouldn’t say out loud to a person in real life. Like: Part of the fun of Tinder is that it’s just so damn fast.
So don’t be the party pooper that sends a page-and-half long essay as your first message.